One of the worst
things that have ever happened to me is having a long distance relationship
when I didn’t know how to handle it. I joined campus three years ago at a time
when I was dating a very beautiful young lady from my home area. I had met and
fallen in love with her in the summer immediately after my high school
education and we had promised to be with each other for life.
Unfortunately
for us we were selected to join different colleges and as you would expect that
wasn’t a very nice thing for our young relationship. We tried keeping in touch
through phone calls and visiting each other once in a while but at the end of
the day it was mutually decided that things weren’t working out and we had to
sadly part ways. It was then that I decided that long distance relationships weren’t
things for me, as much as it is something that had been hyped and spoken of by
people in glowing terms.
Having
said that it has however not escaped my sharp mind that long distance relationships
actually work in some instances, but the fact of the matter is that they have
to be handled with care and that will never change. There must be concerted
effort on the part of both parties if it so happens that the relationship has
to work. There are really no two ways about it, and that may never change.
Total focus and commitment and focus to the relationship must be applied by
both lovers if it has to work.